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Practicing Calm — The Honey Bucket – A Series
I used to think staying calm with my children was a skill I'd eventually master and move past, something I'd graduate from once they were grown. I know better now. Right now, I'm caring for my 96-year-old mother, who has dementia, and I'm finding myself back in the same classroom I thought I'd left decades ago. That's really what this series...
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Learning in Disguise
A friend of mine, a mom with several young children, told me recently that her kids' favorite thing to do is play dress-up. They want to do it all day long, even the boys. Of course, it makes a glorious mess. As we visited, she asked me about the value of this interest she was seeing in her kids, and...
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Stop Fixing the Cookies!
When you're engaged in a project, what matters to you? For many adults, it's the outcome. We want the cookies to taste good, the tomatoes to grow large and red, the dress to look store-bought, and the painting to be perfect. I know that doesn't apply to every adult, but it does apply to many of us. When children are engaged...
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Drunken Snails and Other Miracles
When I moved from Montana to Utah in my late 50s, something stopped me in my tracks - the realization that I was responsible for my responses, no matter the circumstances or the people involved. This hit me hard. I couldn't blame others for how I felt! I was mad and honestly didn't want it to be true. But I...